Regardless of why relationships end, there is no “perfect” way to say goodbye. The divorce process provokes many emotions. They can range from sorrow, guilt, fear, or anger to all the way over to shame, relief, or even exhilaration. No matter what, the end of a marriage, and the related goodbyes, are almost always difficult.
How do our clients deal with that, both internally and with their partners? Wouldn’t it help the collaborative divorce process move more smoothly if both of our clients had already said “goodbye” to their marriage and to their partner before starting it?
The reality is that many clients are not able or find it painful to say their goodbyes. Even when attempted, the goodbye is often poorly done or misunderstood. This often contributes to resistance, creates emotional hurdles that get in the way of an effective Collaborative divorce, and interferes with the ability to co-parent after divorce.
Attend The Goodbye Process webinar and find out more about how we can enable and assist our clients to say “Goodbye” in a positive and unobstructed way, in a manner that frees them both to participate in the divorce process with a clearer mind and heart, and with less stress, and to set the stage for better co-parenting.